Heather, congrats on your beaiutful boy! I just wanted to say I have one major regret from the first month after my twin boys were born, and that is that I tortured myself trying (and failing) to breastfeed them. I'm sure far better and more clever moms could have made it work, but I couldn't. I gave up after a month of constant breast feeding/pumping (I never even put a shirt on after a while!) and I swear it drastically improved the quality of our lives! Do what's good for you!